“This information is included in our Guide to Parenting in the Digital Age. Click here to see the rest of the guide.
Almost any child that has access to a computer has equal access to the dangers of the Internet. Recent events in the news highlight these dangers. That’s why it is imperative that you be informed on how to protect your children when they’re online.
The following tips are excerpts from 20 Internet Safety Tips for Parents provided by Lynette A. Battaglia, United States Attorney for the District of Maryland:
Internet Safety Tips for Parents:
Become computer literate and be actively involved in your children’s online experiences.
Place computers in high-traffic areas, not a child’s room.
Use screening software.
Read unfamiliar e-mails. Monitor telephone and modem changes. Check out unfamiliar phone numbers and e-mail addresses.
Don’t allow children to spend long periods of time on the computer, especially at night.
Help children understand that online users may not be who they claim to be or who they seem to be. Get to know your children’s Internet friends.
Tell children to report anything they come across online that seems strange or makes them uncomfortable especially if they are ever asked personal questions or invited to personal meetings.
Tell children to report to you suggestive, obscene or threatening e-mail or bulletin board messages. Forward copies to your ISP (Internet Service Provider) and insist they help deal with the problem.
Be concerned if children mention adults you don’t know, become sensitive, or appear to have inappropriate sexual knowledge.
Post the Internet Safety Rules for Kids by your computer.
Internet Safety Rules for Kids:
Never give out personal information, such as your name, address, school name or address, or parents’ or teachers’ names or addresses.
Never create online profiles.
Never visit chat rooms or join an IRC (Internet Relay Chat) without permission.
Never go to private chat rooms or meet online friends in a private online setting.
Never go to new Web sites without permission.
Never respond to rude or offensive e-mail, instant messages or postings.
Never post, send or receive pictures (usually files that end with GI, jpg, jpeg, or tiff).
Never meet online friends in person without a parent present.”
The above information can be found in full at http://www.boystown.org/parenting/guides/Pages/digital-age.aspx
Special thanks to a concerned and very helpful Parent for providing us with this important information.
Brick, NJ 08723
“The Supreme Court Rules In Favor Of A Special Education Student
U.S. Supreme Court Chief Justice John Roberts wrote the unanimous opinion in today’s ruling.
School districts must provide students with disabilities the chance to make meaningful, “appropriately ambitious” progress, the Supreme Court said today in an 8-0 ruling. (Emphasis added.)
The decision in Endrew F. v. Douglas County School District could have far-reaching implications for the 6.5 million students with disabilities in the United States.
The case centered on a child with autism and attention deficit disorder whose parents removed him from public school in fifth grade. He went on to make better progress in a private school. His parents argued that the individualized education plan, or IEP, provided by the public school was inadequate, and they sued to compel the school district to pay his private school tuition.
The Supreme Court today sided with the family, overturning a lower court ruling in the school district’s favor.
The federal Individuals With Disabilities Education Act, or IDEA, guarantees a “Free Appropriate Public Education,” or FAPE, to all students with disabilities. Today’s opinion held that “appropriate” goes farther than what the lower courts held.
“It cannot be right that the IDEA generally contemplates grade-level advancement for children with disabilities who are fully integrated in the regular classroom, but is satisfied with barely more than de minimis progress for children who are not,” read the opinion, signed by Chief Justice John Roberts.
The case drew a dozen friend-of-the-court briefs from advocates for students with disabilities who argued that it is time to increase rigor, expectations and accommodations for all.
“A standard more meaningful than just above trivial is the norm today,” wrote the National Association of State Directors of Special Education.
The ruling seems likely to increase pressure from families and advocates in that direction.
Significantly, Judge Neil Gorsuch, currently in confirmation hearings for the Supreme Court’s vacant ninth seat, has repeatedly ruled the other way on similar cases.
Gorsuch’s opinions in eight out of ten cases involving students of disabilities all tended toward limiting the responsibilities of school districts — for example, if they leave school of their own accord out of frustration. IDEA’s standard of a “free appropriate public education,” reads Gorsuch’s opinion in one of these cases, “is not an onerous one.”
When questioned on his record, in light of this new ruling, during his hearing today by Texas Sen. John Cornyn, he said “I was wrong, Senator, because I was bound by circuit precedent, and I’m sorry.”
It was a great pleasure to attend the START Project & SPAN of NJ’s Essex County Roundtable last night. This very informative and useful exchange of ideas for SEPAC Organizations was led by
SPAN/START Leader Myriam Alizo.
Ms. Alizo is a fiercely dedicated Advocate for Special Education in New Jersey and throughout the nation. Her presentation was very inspiring and informative, as always. If you have yet to hear Ms. Alizo speak, please be sure to attend one of her presentations soon. You will be very glad that you did.
Thanks also to Ms. Michele Tyler of SPAN/START,
who spoke about the issue of Disproportion-ality facing some school districts.
Another highlight for me was having the opportunity to meet the very helpful and dedicated members of various Special Ed Parents groups throughout Essex County, including wonderful folks from NEWARK, SOUTH ORANGE/MAPLEWOOD, WEST ORANGE, LIVINGSTON as well as the Special Ed Supervisor from ROSELAND and the Coordinator of Special Services/LDTC from ESSEX FELLS.
It was a great night and one filled with ideas for improving our Bloomfield SEPAC!
Stress – Fear – Anxiety – School Avoidance – Depression
“I Don’t Want To Go To School”
If any of these words have become part of your child’s vocabulary please join:
Dr. Ellen Platt for some help!
There will be 2 Sessions – based on Age/Grade. All Parents of All Students are welcome.
Bloomfield Special Services Department & Bloomfield SEPAC Present:
For Parents of Middle School/High School
Wednesday March 1st 7-9 PM – Students at
The Bloomfield Board of Education Administration Building – 2nd Floor, Conference Room
For Parents of PreK/Elementary Students
Wednesday March 15th, 7-9 PM at Fairview Elementary School.
Dr. Ellen Platt will be joining us both evenings to talk about these concerns for all age groups. Bring your concerns, bring your questions and let’s talk! The agenda isn’t pre-planned, but will take the course the parents need!
Dr. Ellen M. Platt is a Child, Adolescent, and Adult Psychiatrist practicing in Cedar Grove, NJ. Dr. Platt consults with many school districts in addition to her private practice. She also provides workshops focusing on Child and Adolescent problems from a clinical perspective as they relate to everyday life stresses.